No Sex, But Masturbating; Help!!!

No Sex, But Masturbating



Dear Sir, (Bibbi)

I write to find out if it is safe not to have sex. I am 30 years old and have not had sex (sexual intercourse) since I was born; though, very handsome and girls like me and I like them too Is there any danger? This is what I want to know and the reason 4 this is my faith because the BIBLE states it clearly that sex is only permitted in marriage. I’m asking this because I heard some rumors that it is not good so I want u to advice me or give me your own opinion on this matter. Also, sincerely, I have no girlfriend let alone making love 2 any girl. Against my will, I masturbate a lot. Is it healthy 2 masturbate? I like pornographic materials a lot as this is the only way that help me ease off some of my sexual starve burden. Right now, my penis is like that of those who act erotic movies, if not bigger.

Please doctor, will this reduce my sperm count -- help me find a way 2 stop this mess so that my sperm wouldn't get finished before I get married.

This is as a result of the publication I saw on the daily SUN news paper this week. I hope to hear from u soon.

Thanks, Preowei S; Yenagoa, Bayelsa



Dear Preowei S,

Simply put -- and this is science and not just my own opinion--you cannot be harmed in any way by being a virgin; by not having sex -- whether male or female. Anything to the contrary is arrant nonsense; okay? Very good. Now, again, masturbation -- repeated masturbation only reduces sperm count temporarily; in the immediate only and it's nothing to worry about. In one or two days-- or even less, there's full recovery of sperm count because there's continuous production; you see? Masturbation does seem to enlarge the penis, yes but it cannot be maintained. If, as you said, it is against your will, then masturbation is not healthy psychologically for you --and not only for you but for most indulgers-- you see-- it is usually against the better judgment of masturbators; there is a decided compulsion -- a "by force" aspect to those who indulge in it. They cannot stop; even when they want to; they are enslaved by it; they find out they are driven to do it-- that is, it’s like something compels, subjugates or forces them to do the deed!!! Again, at times, married masturbators prefer masturbation to sex-- which is a pity!!! You will need a lot of determination; support and prayers to stop the habit. Now, at 30, my advice will be-- "go and marry"; simple. Why fantasize about sex (that's what happens in masturbation) when you can have the real thing and better in marriage -- with thanks? And since you mention the Bible, fantasizing is roundly condemned in Matthew 5. 27&28 -as well as pornography. At 30, actually the simple truth is you need to go and marry-- you are overripe for it; okay? Go to school when your colleagues are doing so; marry when they are --that's a good principle for times and seasons; understand? Also, see Genesis 30.30.
Finally, forget the notion that sperm count is affected y masturbation; it doesn't work that way, okay? And for help to be able to stop masturbation, just call the helplines. You will be happy you did because we have 100%expertise with successful handling of that challenge.

Cheers
Dr.Caleb Bibbi Oluranti
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