When Ultrasound Cannot Detect the Baby

Ultrasound Scan Cannot Detect Our Baby, Help!! Dear Doc, I feel at home with the way you treat peoples' questions, and decided to write you a personal one. I am a young man of 32 years and married for two years now but no issue to show for it. Our problem now is that of confusion. When my wife and I decided to really start a search for a child, we went for various tests which showed that my wife was alright but with slight fibroid, which the doctors said would not hinder her from conceiving. I was found to have a low sperm count problem and was placed on treatment. This greatly improved to up to 74 million, and I was given a clean bill of health as able to impregnate my wife. My wife took in twice and it all went out after the first month We continued until we decided to try herbs to fight the fibroid. The herb woman told my wife the very first time, that she was one month pregnant. We rejoiced and started thinking of our baby. However lately, she went to hospital for scan after three months, and was told that there was no child in her womb. Meanwhile, her tummy is protruding, breast enlarging, she feels very heavy, experiences sleepiness and drowsiness in the early mornings, and once or twice has almost thrown up in the morning. The problem is that with all these signs, is it possible that she is not pregnant? And if not, what could be growing in her tummy, since it is not fibroid. Please, advice us before we do something stupid. Please, do reply through this mail address while sharing same in the papers for those facing the same kind of confusion. Thanks again for your interest. Yours truly, Dylan Thomas; Enugu Dear Dylan, There is bad news and then good news for you. The classical diagnosis any Western-trained doctor will give you is what is called Pseudocyesis or False Pregnancy. Ultrasound scan was done for your wife. There is no evidence of a pregnancy or a baby in her womb. The pregnancy is false. Your wife has some funny thing wrong with her. Perhaps she should see a psychologist or a psychiatrist or at least a counselor. Full Stop; no hope; no way. What is the good news? About seven years ago, a lady with her husband walked into my consultation room to see me. The lady was in tears. She showed me two reports of scan tests she did from the same scan centre about three months apart. The first showed that there was a baby. The second report showed, like your wife that there was no baby. Husband and wife were devastated. What happened? Where was their baby? She was still looking pregnant? To cut a long story short, I told them what to do; they did it and after two weeks, they went back for a scan and the scan reported on the same woman that there was a baby in her womb now. Needless to say, they delivered the baby who is a boy and alive and well; a spitting image of the dad. There are mysterious cases which we as mere doctors cannot handle without a consideration of not just the physical, but the physical, together with the mental and not forgetting the spiritual. When we see face to face we will handle the challenge and any one with a similar story. Call the help lines

Hope I'm Not Going Mad?

I Hope I’m Not Going Mad? Please Sir, I am in a desperate need of a solution to this problem. I am a secondary school leaver. Right from my secondary school days I have been experiencing this problem. The problem is this, whenever I talk to a person, address a congregation or had an encounter with somebody, I am always nervous and after that I cannot write as a result of the nervousness. Last year I visited a doctor and he told me that it is palpitation that it will stop soon but I have been waiting patiently for it to stop but to no avail. I am not comfortable with this, so I need a way out of this mess. Doctor, I hope I'm not going mad or something? Please reply via, my e-mail because as a secondary school leaver I may not be opportune to read it. Sulaiman Afikuyomi, Ilorin Dear Sulaiman, Such nerves as you complain of usually have a discernible origin which a skilled doctor/psychologist/psychotherapist//psychiatrist can help you ferret out. These roots/origins are usually some conflict or the other at the base of your mind or emotions. Are there any hidden worries or anxieties or guilt or tension? These are the kinds of questions he will be looking for answers to. Then he can tackle it. The condition is referred to as an anxiety neurosis, almost bordering on a phobia. What to do? Go seek out a professional who understands the mind -- like the ones above. Where to find them? Try General Hospitals, Specialist Hospitals; Teaching Hospitals. You can be treated. Help is available. Madness? Oh no!!Truly, when we talk mind and psychiatry, most people think madness. Psychologists, psychotherapists and psychiatrists are not always treating madness; okay? There are much simpler, milder and harmless problems of the mind called Neuroses that we all can suffer from -- like Depression-- and they are really skilled in helping out with such concerns. Madness is another kettle of tea and I daresay your fears must be properly laid to rest by telling you what are the tell-tale features of madness-- which you do not have but which I list here just to help anyone with fears similar to yours to sort themselves out. When a person is going mad you begin to notice other symptoms apart from the ones you mentioned --things that affect the person's character especially -- character changes-- like)Coldness vs Normal Warmth; b)Concern Gone; c)May hear voices; d)Sleeplessness; e)Mannerisms and habits have changed--won't do some things they are normally very fond of;f)Violence; g)May see or hear things others do not see; h)Mood changes -- may be too joyful or too depressed for normal; i)Withdrawal; j)Verbal Attacks and negative words and curses on people; k)Wanting to undress in public; l)Hallucinations; m)Jumpiness and fear; n)Aggressiveness; o)Incorrigible-ness; p)Irritability--q)Fights Easily; r)Paranoia -- or a feeling; frequently expressed-- that normally harmless things or people want to harm the patient; s)Quarrelsomeness-- Quarrels with everyone and everything -- fights her relatives; attacks driver; uses a knife or other harmful instruments to threaten; suddenly tears others clothing; t)Denial of reality; u)Anger, or Wrath -- as in great anger; v)Violence; and so on. All of that is bad news. The good news, of course, is that all these can be controlled and suppressed. At whatever level --whether just beginning or the one that has progressed a little bit. Just see the right professionals. Call the help-lines; send a text/ e mail Cheers

What’s The Matter With My Belly?

What’s The Matter With My Belly?

Dear Doctor,

I read a Daily Sun newspaper and saw so many problems put up to you which you gave a solution of how to solve; that was why I intended to present my case to you .This has been bothering me for long, and has been a very big problem to me which nobody will not able to observe, looking at me I'm healthy but inside I know the kind of problem I have. I’ve been to so many hospitals and have taken a lot of antibiotics, the lab always prescribe that I have typhoid and malaria parasite, and also stomach problem which the doctor said that I had excess gas syndrome. It has been 2 years and some months since this sickness started; I have never been myself again, and never believe that typhoid will ever last this way. Please tell me what to do cause you are the last doctor I'm writing to. I stopped taking any drugs because I tried and I found out that it weakens my body whenever I took any antibiotic.

Keriani Gaskiya; Taraba

 Dear Keriani,

If your stomach is acting up with excess gas-- and the doctor called it a syndrome then maybe we are dealing with something that is difficult to delineate. A syndrome is always so called because of this --it is difficult to characterize or understand; but it is a recognized group of symptoms or challenges to health or well-being. Typhoid certainly can be the culprit. Also, chronic indigestion can do the same thing --just as the poorly understood Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS). IBS means your bowel doesn’t work the right way; it can cause cramping, bloating, gas, diarrhea, and constipation, but doesn’t damage the bowel or lead to other health problems. The doctor, who will diagnose IBS based on your symptoms, may need to have medical tests done to rule out other health problems. Stress doesn’t cause IBS, but it can make your symptoms worse. Fatty foods, milk products, chocolate, alcohol, and caffeinated and carbonated drinks can trigger symptoms.

Eating foods with fiber like vegetables and fruits like pawpaw, pine apple, apple, cabbage, carrots, bananas, and eating small meals (up to 5 or 6) throughout the day may reduce symptoms. Drinking lots of water helps too. There is no medical cure for IBS but treatment for IBS may include medicine, stress relief, and changes in eating habits. You'll certainly need to see a good doctor face to face and have him investigate the IBS. Just seeing malaria parasite in the blood of anyone living in Nigeria's holoendemic area is nothing to write home about—it’s of no consequence especially if there are no accompanying symptoms of malaria

Married So Long Without Children;Staphylococcus Issues;Needing Immediate Help!

Married So Long Without Children; Staphylococcus Issues; Needing Immediate Help!

Good morning Doctor,

I have been having the suspicion of my genital area not being okay. After undergoing tests after three years of marriage without children I found out I had Staphylococcus infection. I treated it for over a year, returned for test and the result read that there was insignificant traces of germs, which might mean it has been flushed off. Now I continue to experience low sperm count of about 5 million instead of the normal 20 million. Also I have this continuous weak erection and quick ejaculation. 

Please I need your urgent help for a final and permanent cure to this frustrating and embarrassing menace. I also think this might have affected my prostrate organ as I deduced from your blog, mediamedixdoctor .

Thank you.

      

Your faithful,

Femi Elegbata, Kabba, Kogi

Immediate Help Please

Dear Sir,

Please I need your help right away. I did a urine culture test last week and the result came that I have yielded Scanty Growth of Staphylococcus aureus after 24 hours of incubation at 37 degrees Centigrade. I don't know what to do, please help me

Yours sincerely

Jibrilla Suleiman. Adamawa

Dear Femi and Jubrilla,

Scanty growth of germs can still cause disease and MUST BE TREATED if you are to regain your full health. Unfortunately, this lack of full treatment fuels more infertility through low sperm count as in the case of Femi and his inability to get his wife pregnant even after three full years of marriage. No, with scanty growth remaining, it has not been flushed off in the language of Femi. Yes it is Chronic Prostate infection (prostatitis) that is at the root of all your complaints of inadequacy on the bed, weak erection, and low hunger for sex, premature or too quick ejaculation, only one round and madam complaining about your act. Thank God that a final permanent cure is available for Staphyloccus issues; just call the help-lines and check our blog at www.mediamedix.blogspot.com. Like we announced a fortnight ago, you can still register for the event on Getting Married Now by sending an e mail titled I’m Interested or I Want to Get Married to our  email address, docmarrylove@yahoo.com

Cheers

Is Ladies Drug Rape by Burundanga Real?

Burundanga—Ladies Beware!!!

Dear Dr,

Can you please enlighten the public about a drug reported to be useful for  men of ill will to use on unsuspecting victims whereby they cancel the victim’s will power and then attack the poor victim at will? Is it true that there is such a drug?

Jenrayo Ikpeme, Oyo

Dear Jenrayo,

Very unfortunately, the truth is that there is such a drug. It’s name is burndanga and it’s scientific name is scopolamine or hyoscine. Wikipedia says “Hyoscine, also known as scopolamine, is a medication used to treat motion sickness and postoperative nausea and vomiting. It is also sometimes used before surgery to decrease saliva. When used by injection, effects begin after about 20 minutes and last for up to 8 hours. It may also be used by mouth and as a dermal patch.

Common side effects include sleepiness, blurred vision, dilated pupils, and dry mouth. It is not recommended in people with glaucoma or bowel obstruction.] It is unclear if use during pregnancy is safe; however, it appears to be safe during breastfeeding.

Hyoscine was first written about in 1881 and came into medical use in 1947. It is on the WHO Model List of Essential Medicines, the most effective and safe medicines needed in a health system. Hyoscine is produced from plants of the nightshade family. The name "scopolamine" is derived from one type of nightshade known as Scopolia while "hyoscine" is from another type known as Hyoscyamus niger.

Now, this drug has been useful to perpetrate acts of rape, robbery and assault on victims who include females alone or in night clubs, elderly people and other targets of violence and robbery especially in Latin America; and definitely in Colombia and Spain. The way it is reportedly used is to slip it into drinks or to suffuse it into ordinary paper like business cards and hand such paper to a woman to help to call a number written on the paper or to keep the business card of a painter, plumber or work-man or some such other contact. The lady sniffs the drug in high doses infused in the paper and begins to lose control and will power. The best thing to say is “ladies beware”of any male approaching you and handing you a piece of paper.

Thought.com says, “Make no mistake, burundanga is real. It is used in the commission of crimes. If you're traveling in a region where its use has been confirmed, exercise due caution. But don't rely on forwarded emails for your facts.”

Cheers

What is Tubo-Ovarian Abscess?

Tubo-Ovarian Abscess

 Dear Doctor Bibbi, 

I want to commend you for the way you solve peoples problem. I saw your column in the Daily Sun newspaper and I really praise God for giving you such wisdom. Firstly, my question is this -- what is Tubo-Ovarian Abscess? What are the symptoms, causes and dangers? My friend asked me to help her to ask and if there is any drug you can prescribe for pityriasis versicolor. I am looking forward to your reply.

Thanks. 

Modinat Fatiullai, Ilorin 

Dear Modinat, 

Tubo-Ovarian Abscess (TOA) is a bag of pus—like a very big boil-- involving the tubes and ovaries of a woman and causing, majorly, infertility. Pains in the pelvis or lower abdomen, fever, a swelling in the lower abdomen, sweating and irregular menses are some of the symptoms and signs to look for. Also a Pelvic Ultrasound Scan will reveal details of the condition. Any TOA is a matter for surgery by a competent Obsterician-Gynaecologist. Infection of the tubes and ovaries by bacteria are the culprits—germs like Staphylococcus, Streptococci,Diplococcus, Neisseria etc cause it. Pityriasis Versicolor is easily treated with antifungal creams; it is a fungal infection of the skin. Call me and we’ll sort you out. 

Cheers

Dr. Caleb Bibbi Oluranti; 08033466574; 08028240983; 08093142261; 08156697540

How Thirty-Two Years of Suffering Staphylococcus Ended

How Thirty-Two Years of Suffering Staphylococcus Ended

Dear Dr,

Just before Christmas last year, I came from across the Niger to see you in Lagos concerning health challenges I have had since 1985 when I was 17 years old. My symptoms were hotness of the head, confusion or decreased ability to reason, understand or calculate; on and off headache, especially in the occipital area, dizziness, itching in the mouth and noise in the neck with pains in the neck joints. I had decrease in the clarity of my eyes; I could not see properly. I had itching of the eyes sometimes on, sometimes off. I had bumps on my face, my teeth were coloured; there was fever and hotness of the body, severe waist pain; general body itching after bathing; muscle pains radiating from hip to legs like muscle pull; and weakness of the muscles. All these issues began in 1985 with urinary pains or dysuria; sexual weakness; only one round; premature ejaculation; urinary urgency; loss of balance as I walk; hoarseness; heat in the body; sleep deprivation; shock; skin gone lighter; pains in the tongue; halitosis or smelling mouth. My finger nails were unhealthy; they seemed bitten by some strange thing. I suffered repeated malaria and typhoid. I had a scaling rash in the groin. The laboratory examined scrapings from my nails but detected no fungus.

When we met at your clinic, I told you doctors had diagnosed Staphylococcus. You took time to listen to me and interview me thoroughly and then you conducted a complete physical examination on me after which you diagnosed a Chronic Urinary Tract Infection in concurrence with a Chronic Prostatitis; Chronic Candidiasis of the Groin all due to a state of Lowered Immunity; to rule out Spiritually Inflicted Disease Entity or State

You assure me that despite my sufferings of the last 32 years, with your treatment I would be free. Over the next 3 days, you did all within your power to give me the best treatment that science, medicine and prayer could offer and I am happy to state categorically that after 32 years at last I am well; totally well without a single one of those weird symptoms remaining.

Thank you, doctor. I am really grateful.  Keep up the good job

Ebere Worah,

Port Harcourt, Rivers

Dear Ebere,

You (and all other sufferers )are welcome. 2017 from 1985 ámounts to 32 years. To become free from such trouble which in your case, you told me stopped your advance to university to study Law for which you had already been admitted before the disease set on, is very spectacular. It is a great achievement. Congratulations. Take all your prescribed medicines and you will never see such suffering or such disease any more. Chronic Prostatitis(CPR) causes a persisting Urinary Tract Infection as is well known. CPR also demands long and enduring treatment; so once again, make sure you stay the course and finish your prescriptions.  Staphylococcus or some other germ like Escherichia Coli, Chlamydia Trachomatis, Klebsiella spp etc can cause your disease but the thankful thing is that we now know and recognize they are simply the offshoots of Lowered Immunity. In other words, it is because of the fact that your immunity has been lowered below what is normal that those germs can come and torment your system ; and, in fact, did so in your case by afflicting you with recurring malaria and typhoid fever. You also needed to be treated for what is called Somatization Syndrome or Anxiety Neurosis, manifesting as all kinds of feelings of things moving, crawling, disturbing in your system. Some authorities also call this Somatization “Formication”. For any Chronic(or long-term) condition, the doctor must keep an open mind. Could the patient be having deep-seated Spiritually engineered roots as source of his never- ending fountain of disease? The simple way to be reasonably sure of that is to ask about the patient's dreams. If night-mares are prominent, as you admitted to me when I queried you in that area, SIDE (Spiritually Inflicted Disease Entity) is very likely. All such conditions need Prayer Therapy in addition to other treatment and  we are Specialists in that, thank God. Once again accept my congratulations as I sincerely pray and declare your healing to be permanent .

Cheers

Mystery Condiiton

Mystery Condition

 

 

Dr Caleb,Good day, Sir.

I don’t know what's wrong with me for close to 3yrs now, I have been having pimples on my face, arms and some other parts of my body. They just appear, within a week they go and appear somewhere else again. I also have itchy scalp and other parts of my body sometimes, coupled with a burning sensation on my lips and under my feet that comes and goes. I am also losing weight. I try to eat as much as possible but don't gain much. I sometimes feel pains in my knees and elbows. I don’t know if this is depression of some sort. I am scared of testing for HIV because I really don’t know what the outcome might be. Please doctor, kindly explain to me what could be the cause of all this, and what I should do. I am beginning to be afraid that my problems may have a spiritual root. What do you think? I will also like to find out the symptoms of HIV and if they all appear at once or singly. I will be awaiting your reply soonest. Thank you Sir and God bless you

John Jerry Isoun, Bayelsa

 

Dear John Jerry

Yes, some conditions may have spiritual roots but before we get into that, physically, we will encourage you to go do your HIV tests. No, we do not suspect HIV but know you do and understand that in any war it is better psychologically for you to know what you are fighting. HIV symptoms can appear in whatever combination and include skin rashes that won’t heal, weakness from lack of enough blood or anemia, weight loss, thrush/ sore throat/ mouth sores that refuse to heal, diarrhea, fever that is unrelenting, swollen glands, joint and muscle pains. Whatever or whichever symptoms you do or do not have, remember that ONLY THE HIV TEST CAN TELL. Psychologically, we are going to counsel you and get to the root of your depression. Spiritually, we will teach you to pray (any and every religion-friendly) to God your Creator who will have mercy on you. You will soon be so well sorted out you will wonder if your illness was not just a dream. Just call the help-lines/send us an e mail or text. You can also visit www.mediamedix.blogspot.com

How Can I Satisfy Her?

 

How To Satisfy Her

Dear Doctor,

I am 43 and a regular reader of your column. I have the embarrassing problem of Premature Ejaculation. Embarrassing because my 36 year old outspoken wife and partner complains of my inability to satisfy her; so she's now unwilling to have fun with me anymore. I fear I may lose her but I love her so much. Please help me. Thinking about sex now is a nightmare to me.

John Jasper James Alapere, Ketu, Lagos

 

Dear Jasper,

We've had a barrage of letters like yours asking the same question and we promised to deal with it ;so here goes: A large number of men have this complaint of Premature Ejaculation or PRJ which is defined as when a man finishes sex (has orgasm or ejaculates) before the wife finishes or is satisfied or has orgasm. While the secondary (or recent origin) type is caused by an infection--usually of the Prostate--and must be properly treated by a competent doctor to be cured, the primary type (of long term--began since the man started having sex) of PRJ is usually psychological and due to inexperience or over-excitement at the pleasurable sight of a woman. Tackle it this way

1) Get your wife's co-operation by sitting her down and admitting to her that you have a problem which she holds the key to helping you solve. You need a wife--a committed and understanding only partner not a termagant of a girl-friend. This, apart from protecting you from AIDS and STD's helps to guarantee success. She realizes that there is no alternative to you. You are in it together. And you should spend and have time to work together on the project of making you the type of man that will easily satisfy her so she and you both can be as happy as you deserve to be. Commitment is the key. 2)Tell her clearly the problem-- let her see that you do not willingly stop the fun before she gets her own satisfaction--No. It is something you cannot control; something too big for you to handle something you have had no control over. But now with her cooperation, both of you can learn to gain control over it. She must stop seeing the problem as just your problem and start seeing it as her problem too--its robbing not only you but herself of her fun also!! 3)When a man fails to perform on the bed, it affects his self-confidence and subsequent attempts at sex carry that psychological overlay or disadvantage -- so she should not add petrol to the fire of your dying psyche by unending nagging, complaints, snide remarks and deprecatory behaviour either before, during or after sex; for this will give you low self-esteem and will guarantee that you never perform as you should anymore. Rather, she should turn around and help you (and herself) -- nagging hinders performance -- by heightening the man's anxiety. 4)Now listen to this very important key -- women are naturally slow ; much slower than men in getting to the heights of sexual arousal, satisfaction or orgasm. So start to work on your woman a long time before sex. Compliments (nice remarks, praise, appreciation) works wonders on women. No criticism, no trouble before going to bed -- this puts her in the right mood to sexually ignite faster. 5 ) In bed, forget yourself and concentrate on her.Men almost always do not need any foreplay. But women need it like hell. So spend very good time arousing your woman as you hold her close, kiss her, whisper sweet nothings --"I love you"-- touch her and gently stroke her body -- as she directs you. It's like bringing her up to the sexual height where you have already climbed...

 

YOU CAN ACCESS THE REMAINDER OF THIS REPORT, AS A MANUAL, WHEN YOU CALL THE DOCTOR PERSONALLY AND LEARN WHAT YOU NEED TO DO TO GET IT. CALL NOW

 

 

Dr. Caleb Bibbi Oluranti, 08033466574; 08028240983; 08093142261; 08156697540

First-Time Sex for Girls

First Sex For Gals

Hello Doctor.

 I would like to know what experiences\ things to notice\feel when a woman has sex for the first time because I am not sure myself of the answers I get from people. It has not happened to me so you to tell me in details the common things\experiences.  Please I need the answer fast to verify some things even if you want to send an attachment. Please put your own opinion down. Doctor, I am relying on you and please do not publish my name and email address. May God continue to give you knowledge, bless you and your family.

Genevieve Johnson, Apapa, Lagos

Dear Genevieve,

At the time a lady is disvirgined she will notice the following - 

Pain-- b/c of the breaking of the hymen; 2.Some bleeding; .3.Little pleasure -- some times no pleasure at all; 4.Disappointment as to expectations of pleasure which expectations are not fully met but will be met much later after the pain of the period of loss of virginity. 5. Closeness to the man --even if painful.6. Fulfillment and joy and contentment if you loved him.7. Feeling of regret if you did not love him. You can call the help-lines for anyhelp you need in this regard

Cheers

Dr. Caleb Bibbi Oluranti, 08033466574;08028240983;08156697540;08093142261 

I'm Losing My Erection & Can't Make Love

Losing My Erection;Can’t Make Love

Dear Doctor,
I have a problem that is multi-pronged. It all started last year when I was hospitalized due to bronchial pneumonia. I recovered to find out I no longer had a job. This took its toll on me among other disappointments. To my problem proper; I tried making love to my fiance a month after my illness, but discovered to my chagrin that anytime I attempted wearing a condom, I lost my erection. All subsequent moves to get it back, results in involuntary emission. Initially, I thought it was a result of the illness so I waited for another month before trying again and the same thing happened. I tried again the third time and it became worse; terrible. By this time my fiance had already lost patience with me and broke up. Again, that first month, my fiance showed me a lab result that she had scanty growth of staphylococcus and candidiasis. At first I was worried, but I remembered that I just came out of the hospital where a lot test was carried before my subsequent treatment. Since the doctor didn't mention anything like that, I just shrugged it off. Could this be related to the problem at hand? Though I thought it was more of psychological than physical since I was kind of depressed. I have already encountered worse emotional problem before and my performance was not in any way affected, so I was really disappointed that it is happening to me now, especially when I’ve promised never to make love without a condom until I get married. I tried sorting things out with my fiancé but she seems to be so sure that the episode will repeat itself and since the last day she no longer loves me. I am really worried about this development, please advise me as it is affecting me emotionally, and has ruined my love life, even worse than my unemployed predicament. I would be very much obliged if you could send your prognosis of the situation to my e-mail address as I will be traveling to a location where getting a newspaper to read is not easy, so that I can read it immediately I come back. Thanks,
Yours Faithfully,
Humuani Wa’Salaam, Maiduguri

 Dear HS,

If you simply send an e mail to betterloverz@yahoo.com you will get a full understanding of how to sort yourself out. You have Chronic Prostatitis (CPR); that's all. This condition does all what you have reported and more-- lowers sperm count and causes male infertility. So it negatively affects both virility (ability to be a stud--be powerful on the bed and really do your woman to satisfaction) and fertility (ability to impregnate a woman and father kids). The germs you mentioned above-- Staphylococcus aureus and Candida albicans happen to be major culprits in causing the disease along with Escherichia coli. Others include Klebsiella, Proteus mirabilis and other Gram Negative bacterial organisms. Your condition will not go away unless you treat it and treatment is not straightforward as many physicians fail to cure it --quite a number feel it’s just a question of psychology and others think you do not get any sexual effects when you have CPR--or in other words, CPR causes no sexual complaints but the truth is that the disease cripples a man sexually- fewer rounds than before, loss of sexual hunger or libido, weakened morning erection, soft erection, premature ejaculation, lowered sperm count, frequent night encounters with sex called wet dreams, etc. The psychological angle has some truth to it but not in the way surmised (frequent failure with women eventually makes a man avoid women and sex) and in some cases, you need spiritual help to tackle the sex in dreams complication. Treatment is not simple -you need prolonged treatment with appropriate and high dose antibiotics and a few other bits of deep understanding of both the mind and the spirit to tackle the disease successfully which we do very well. If you follow our prescriptions and advise you will get rid of it. Just call the helplines

I Have Banned Sex With My Husband

I Have Banned Sex With My Husband

Dear Dr,
Because we are growing older and for the sake of greater convenience, my husband and I keep a plastic container under the bed as a urinal which gets emptied by us in the morning. I have noticed that there are flaky whitish sediments in the urine when I dispose of it in the morning and I became apprehensive. I insisted on laboratory examination which showed nothing wrong. By getting two different containers, I have been able to discover that the sediments come from my husband’s urine. Again, laboratory evidence is zero. I am worried, because on google, infection is mentioned. For this reason I have stopped allowing my husband to have unprotected sex with me; I don’t want any infection. I have been demanding condoms which he refuses because to him they are ridiculous. This has led to a stalemate. Please advise me what to do. Thank you
Shirley Madumere, Enugu

My dear Shirley,
The word infection can be the cause of a lot of unnecessary scares if not correctly understood.  But t to escape the fear snare, here is wisdom. It is Sexually Transmitted Infection you want to run away from. When infection is not qualified by the phrase “sexually transmitted” there is very little to worry about. You see, the vagina itself is not sterile but contains a lot of germs (although beneficial). The astute physician knows what to treat and what to ignore, even when laboratory results show what looks like infection. This is because isolating certain germs in medical tests of urine and semen and even high vaginal swabs does not necessarily mean there is infection. Germs may be present in a beneficial relationship with the host; that is they may be living as commensals and not pathogens in the host’s system. Sediments can be present without infection of any kind. And even if true infection is present, it may be a general germ or a germ that causes only urinary tract infection which is not the same thing as a sexually transmitted infection. See a good doctor who will take time to interview, examine and lab-investigate both of you and get to the root of this. But don’t shut down the marital bed because of so-called infection that cannot be found in medical laboratory tests but exists only in the realms of speculation. Such behavior is what causes even morally upright men to stumble. Stop the sex ban. Please be wise. You can call the help-lines.
Dr. Caleb Bibbi Oluranti
08028240983; 08033466574; 08093142261; 08056697540

Masturbating Seven Times A Day; Needing To Marry!!!

Masturbating Seven Times A Day and Needing To Marry!!!

Dear Doctor,

I love your column-and need this urgent advice; due to my inability to mingle with the opposite sex-[i got a history of 17 turn-offs-spurned because of man-got-no-pay-syndrome  and the so-called sanctimonious attitude of our so-called born again girls-which leaves much to be desired! now-I masturbate for like 7 times a day; I'm 30.never dated again in 9 months-and 4 years running I've been so depressed and emotionally devastated to trust any woman-will masturbation harm me? You are the doctor -please publish this and send me a response- because, I won't be in town during this weekend-let others read my example-those who suffer likewise- maybe you can tell me when we will see when I get back-but write!

Thanks!

Georges Humbunu, Badagry

Dear Georges,

The truth is -- at 30 you could be married and fulfilling both yourself and someone who is very likely very lonely at this time. But what do we have? Masturbation -- from you and maybe herself too --out of frustration. But is masturbation bad? Well-- for one it is compulsive -- almost addictive; so that atimes married masturbators prefer it to real intercourse! That's the problem and because nobody can masturbate without phantasising, unsuspected invasion by spirits of incubi and succubi is too common but hidden. But we can go beyond these real challenges-- how to get a lady to listen to you; how to settle down in marriage; how to stop masturbating. Why should anyone masturbate when the real thing is available? We can and want to take you to the place of fulfillment. All you need is proper counseling and mentoring and you'll get there. Begin by befriending a few male friends who seem to know what to do around the ladies and watch them. This will help you focus on the area of your confidence. Be ready to follow guidelines and instructions. Call the help-lines. Imagine how much STD we can prevent by the proper counseling in matters like these!

Cheers

Dr. Caleb Bibbi Oluranti; 08033466574; 08028240983; 08093142261; 08156697540

Chronic Illness After Sex Encounter

After Sex Encounter, Confused; What to do?

Dear Dr,

I have been ill for roughly 2 years now and all efforts to get lasting treatment have proved abortive. Symptoms are recurrent waist pain, internal body heat sometimes at the sole of the feet, stomach rumbling [sometimes noisy], recurrent sore throat, catarrh and cough with chest congestion and sometimes pain in scrotum after a prolonged erection. All this is always accompanied with persistent fever and sometimes dizziness. Once or twice noticed sperm [like] fluid come out of the penis. I have treated malaria and typhoid more than 10 times ever since after tests confirmed their presence. Also 2 HIV TESTS have been negative. What do I do?

Murebo Takoto, Lagos

Dear Murebo,

Looking at all your symptoms, my educated, experienced and professional guess is, you are looking for the answer in the wrong place. Malaria and typhoid? I don’t think so. I think you had sex with a certain girl. And this sex you had got you into trouble. You contacted a disease called Chronic Prostatitis. It is what is responsible for your pain in the scrotum after a prolonged erection and sperm-like fluid coming out of the penis; stomach rumbling and waist pain. I will not be surprised if the germ causing your problems is Staphylococcus. The way to find out and authenticate or deny all this is to do a laboratory test of both your semen and your urine called microscopy, culture and sensitivity. Because of the many complications of Staphylococcus including a generalized depression of the sufferer’s immunity, your malaria and typhoid and other diseases got at you and you have not been able to cure them. The internal body heat and a times at the sole of the feet are symptoms of what is called Somatisation Syndrome; a function of anxiety neurosis which generally may follow problems with the genitals for men, seeing that such challenges can be very stressful for men. You can get fully well, but you must look for doctors who understand what is going on. specialists called urologists and very good doctors are the category I am talking about. Chronic Prostatitis never goes away without treatment--adequate ones at that. So get to work to treat yourself.You can call the help-lines.

Cheers

Dr.Caleb Bibbi Oluranti

08033466574; 08028240983; 08093142261; 08156697540