Before I Commit a Blunder!!
Dear Doctor,
I'm 20, I met a girl last year April. She left high school 3yrs ago exactly when I finished sec.sch. I don't actually know her age because I've not asked her but I guess she will not be more than 2yrs older or younger than I but she looked really matured. last 3 months I sent her a non specific text for a relationship she did not reply instead she send me prayer texts .which I replied. one day she sent her friend to get N500 from me but I did not show up. she continue sending me prayers even when I reply with romantic ones till she traveled to the village 4 the Christmas; one week after her return from the village she is been sending me romantic texts which I reply. now I want to know if she truly want a romantic relationship or sister-brother relationship? I don't mean to disturb u with all these but just that I really want to know the type of relationship she wants before I spoil a good relationship that will make her not feel safe or at ease in my company.
I'm 20, I met a girl last year April. She left high school 3yrs ago exactly when I finished sec.sch. I don't actually know her age because I've not asked her but I guess she will not be more than 2yrs older or younger than I but she looked really matured. last 3 months I sent her a non specific text for a relationship she did not reply instead she send me prayer texts .which I replied. one day she sent her friend to get N500 from me but I did not show up. she continue sending me prayers even when I reply with romantic ones till she traveled to the village 4 the Christmas; one week after her return from the village she is been sending me romantic texts which I reply. now I want to know if she truly want a romantic relationship or sister-brother relationship? I don't mean to disturb u with all these but just that I really want to know the type of relationship she wants before I spoil a good relationship that will make her not feel safe or at ease in my company.
thanks
from your fan in Abeokuta
P.S.I need your reply urgently. I have not taken her out for one day
P.S.I need your reply urgently. I have not taken her out for one day
Dear Abeokuta fan,
Ur mistake? What a man sows, he will reap. U sent a non-specific text and what do u get? A non-specific answer!!!!
And since you have not gone beyond your insipid insecure and timid texts that really say nothing, this girl has continued her game. What to do? Be bold and specific while u are humorous and confident -- even cocky!! Your lack of confidence shows- she sends romantic texts and you are still hesitant... well, a woman wants a real man that can lead her -- not the one she will control-- although she will try to control you -- the truth is she does not want you to be a man who is no man but one she can respect for your manliness-- as shown by your confidence that can be so much in control that you are relaxed and even humorous--as well as generous -- which you were not!! What women want from men? You can send for further help by e mail to docmarrylove@yahoo.com using the title -"www" -- what women want and I'll be glad to help you -- too many men are so timid and the poor girls are all pining away, waiting for them; so we'll be glad to help. What women want? Tough -- and tender!!
And since you have not gone beyond your insipid insecure and timid texts that really say nothing, this girl has continued her game. What to do? Be bold and specific while u are humorous and confident -- even cocky!! Your lack of confidence shows- she sends romantic texts and you are still hesitant... well, a woman wants a real man that can lead her -- not the one she will control-- although she will try to control you -- the truth is she does not want you to be a man who is no man but one she can respect for your manliness-- as shown by your confidence that can be so much in control that you are relaxed and even humorous--as well as generous -- which you were not!! What women want from men? You can send for further help by e mail to docmarrylove@yahoo.com using the title -"www" -- what women want and I'll be glad to help you -- too many men are so timid and the poor girls are all pining away, waiting for them; so we'll be glad to help. What women want? Tough -- and tender!!
