Should I Let Her Go?

Should I Let Her Go? Hi Dr Caleb, A good day happy to you and family. I want to know if you still on the good job. Well, if yes I have one problem I will need your assistance, sir. Please, doctor, it is about the same babe I told you about last year. She is at it again; this girl came back from school with a ring in her engagement finger! When I asked what that means she told me that it was to keep guys off her way! After some time I discovered that she was no longer caring for our relationship again!! I called her to talk; she gave excuses and when I call she will pretend that she is not in a good mood but she will always ask for money from me. But most of all is that she has gone back to school without my knowledge!! I was so much annoyed when I found out she was back to school without telling me!!!! Please what should I do? l love her so much but she never appreciates it. Should I let her go? Please tell me, doctor? Ganiyu Sawdiq Mushin, Lagos Dear Ganiyu, Sorry about the way this girl is treating you and your relationship. But the truth is this kind of thing happens and is allowed to happen once both of you are not married yet. So, since she no longer has any regard for the relationship or for you, the meaning is that she no longer loves you even though you still love her. What should you do? Simply, LET HER GO and keep your peace of mind which has a great deal to do with your health and well-being. I hope you understand? Cheers Dr. Caleb Bibbi Oluranti

Unknown Condition

Unknown Condition Dr Caleb, Good day, Sir. I am Taofeek Ibn Halladu. I am 35yrs, I must commend you on your efforts in helping people through their problems both medical and spiritual. May God bless you abundantly.Doc, I don’t know what's wrong with me for close to 3yrs now, I have been having pimples on my face, arms and some other parts of my body. They just appear, within a week they go and appear somewhere else again. I also have itchy scalp and other parts of my body sometimes, coupled with a burning sensation on my lips and under my feet that comes and goes. I am also losing weight. I try to eat as much as possible but don't gain much. I sometimes feel pains in my knees and elbows. I don’t know if this is depression of some sort. I am scared of testing for HIV because I really don’t know what the outcome might be. Please doctor, kindly explain to me what could be the cause of all this, and what I should do, I will also like to find out the symptoms of HIV and if they all appear at once or singly. I will be awaiting your reply soonest. Thank you, Sir and God bless you Dear Taofeek, Yes. Because, in your question, you mention spiritual and medical by yourself I want to say we help to sort people out from an understanding and thorough training in not just the physical orthodox and medical, but also the mental, psychological and social, not to forget the spiritual, private and personal. Man is tri-partite--body, soul and spirit. You will understand that the physical is conscious; the psychological is sub-conscious and the spiritual is unconscious and accesses us through dreams and intuition/hunches. Apart from the simply physical, to a physician like us, trained properly in all these areas of life, we have to account for your psychological depression and your fear which is a spiritual thing-- these are signals that what you are experiencing may well be beyond ordinary physical treatment alone. What we can tell you is this, you will get well if you follow our guidance, instruction and prescription. Physically, we will encourage you to go do your HIV tests. No, we do not suspect HIV but know you do and understand that in any war it is better psychologically for you to know what you are fighting. HIV symptoms can appear in whatever combination and include skin rashes that won’t heal, weakness from lack of enough blood or anemia, weight loss, thrush/ sore throat/ mouth sores that refuse to heal, diarrhea, fever that is unrelenting, swollen glands, joint and muscle pains. Whatever or whichever symptoms you do or do not have, remember that ONLY THE HIV TEST CAN TELL. Psychologically, we are going to counsel you and get to the root of your depression. Spiritually, we will teach you to pray (any and every religion-friendly) to God your Creator who will have mercy on you. You will soon be so well sorted out that you will wonder if your illness was not just a dream. We have helped many termed incurably ill, who have been to India, Dubai, Europe and America who could not get well but who got well as they listened to us and followed our direction and prescriptions. We can help you. Just call the help-lines/send us an e mail or text. You can also visit www.mediamedix.blogspot.com Dr Caleb Bibbi Oluranti Medical Director,Healingtouch Royal Hospital,Lagos. 08033466574, 08093142261

Pregnant But No Child In Her Womb!!

Pregnant But No Child In Her Womb!! Dear Doc, I feel at home with the way you treat peoples' questions and decided to write you a personal one. I am a young man of 32 years and married for two years now but no issue to show for it. Our problem now is that of confusion. When my wife and I decided to really start a search for a child, we went for various tests which showed that my wife was alright but with slight fibroid, which the doctors said would not hinder her from conceiving. I was found to have a low sperm count problem and was placed on treatment. This greatly improved to up to 74 million, and I was given a clean bill of health as able to impregnate my wife. My wife took in twice and it all went out after the first month. We continued until we decided to try herbs to fight the fibroid. The herb woman told my wife the very first time, that she was one month pregnant. We rejoiced and started thinking of our baby. However lately, she went to the hospital for a scan after 3 months, and was told that there was no child in her womb. Meanwhile, her tummy is protruding, breast enlarging, she feels very heavy, experiences sleepiness and drowsiness in the early mornings, and once or twice has almost thrown up in the morning. The problem is that with all these signs, is it possible that she is not pregnant? And if not, what could be growing in her tummy, since it is not fibroid? Thanks again for your interest. Yours truly, Dylan Thomas; Enugu Dear Dylan, There is bad news and then good news for you. The classical diagnosis any Western-trained doctor will give you is what is called Pseudocyesis or False Pregnancy. Ultrasound scan was done for your wife. There is no evidence of a pregnancy or a baby in her womb. The pregnancy is false. Your wife has some funny thing wrong with her. Perhaps she should see a psychologist or a psychiatrist or at least a counsellor. Full Stop; no hope; no way. What is the good news? About seven years ago, a lady with her husband walked into my consultation room to see me. The lady was in tears. She showed me two reports of scan tests she did from the same scan centre about three months apart. The first showed that there was a baby. The second report showed, like your wife that there was no baby. Husband and wife were devastated. What happened? Where was their baby? She was still looking pregnant! I treated them for two weeks, they went back for a scan and the scan reported on the same woman that there was a baby in her womb now. Needless to say, they delivered the baby who is a boy and alive and well; a spitting image of the dad. There are mysterious cases which we as mere doctors cannot handle without consideration of not just the physical, but the physical, together with the mental and not forgetting the spiritual. When we see face to face we will successfully handle the challenge of anyone with a similar story. Call the help lines Dr Caleb Bibbi Oluranti; 08033466574; 08028240983; 08093142261; 08156697540