HIVPositve; Partner Negative

HIVPositve; Partner Negative
Dr,
Can you please explain to me how we can start having babies?
I am 26yrs old, HIV positive and I have a guy who wants 2 marry me. He is 34yrs and he is a lawyer. He loves me and he wants 2 marry me but he said he does not know how we can start having babies without his contacting HIV. So, I need your help and advice.
I began to take anti-retroviral drugs since April 2005 and I discovered that my breasts bring out milk. Doctor prescribed bromagon for me. I took d whole dose which is in d bottle but d milk is still coming out so, please help.
I have not allowed him 2 touch me yet because I don't want him 2 know about d breast milk that is coming out and he said he wants to settle down as soon as possible with me. Please reply me. Thank u
Laura, Lokoja
 

Dear Laura,
You must understand one thing, both of you. Love is the greatest. Love is the strongest force in the universe -- and that is what you both have between you and in your arsenal. Of course, if this boy does not love you, he cannot think of marrying you, no tot talk of proposing; right? If you love him, tell him all-- milk from breast and all -- and see -- if he will not love you the more. You don't understand? Well God is love -- that's what the Good Book says!!! And many waters cannot quench the fire of love. Love also covers a multitude of sins; so be free and fully naked before your lover-- there is no fear in love; see? Good. Catching the disease? Well, even though there is love, it is always wise to be reasonable. Catching the disease from man to woman is faster than from woman to man; that’s for one -- this is because the surface area of the genitals from where the bug can be caught, you will agree is much wider in the woman than in the man. But again, you have been on ARV's -- so your viral load should be minimal. Now ARV's are cheap and almost free; it will be even easier to procure the precious meds. This is another factor on your side-- both of you. Now, to catch disease from partner to the other is not automatic. The defense capabilities of all humans are not the same -- one person can resist disease better than another; so, it is possible he may never catch anything from you. If you add faith to all that and then one last ingredient -- make the faith active -- come see us or some other doctor/priest who understands these things-- I can guarantee you that you will never get him infected; okay? Nor your babies -- though transmission / infection rates from mother to child is like just 13 --20 %. So on balance I would encourage you to go for love --it conquers all things. To you the lady particularly I would say do not postpone marriage for any excuse or reason; okay? Marry your loving suitor and deal with the challenges in the way I suggested. You will testify. (But if after all I have said anyone of you still has some fears, forget what I said and play safe; okay? Though faith can work wonders, fear does the direct opposite; okay?)

She Seduced Me!!

She Seduced Me!!
Good day Doctor,
Firstly, let me thank you for your effort in solving people`s problem, may your days be long with good health. please doctor am a male, I will be twenty by August.
I 've been living a single life ever since meaning that I have never dated a girl in my whole life, but unfortunately for me , November, 2013, a friend of mine (16 years old girl) came to my house and seduced me to have sex with her, but I was afraid because of disease and the rest but she forced me that I now decided to do it after all she is a very small girl she might not be infected with any disease. So I made love to her with a condom but along the line, she used her finger nail to touch the condom and it got torn right inside her, so when I discovered that the condom has been removed I quickly stood up and got dressed then I begged to leave. Doctor after sometime, I begin to noticed that, whenever am stooling, something like milk or pus do come out from my manhood. and I don't know if it is an std or not and I've been living with it since. So doctor please tell me is it an std, what is the name, and which drug can I take to cure it?  I'm living here in Borno, is it native or Western  medicine? Doctor please what are the effects of this? Please am dying slowly of this I need urgent response from you doctor. Mail it directly to this mail as soon as you receive it. Please I don't want it to be published.
Thanks and God bless you.
Nur'deen from Borno State.

 Dear Nur'deen,
It is really unfortunate when this kind of thing occurs-- but your letter is a very good opportunity to warn youths out there that this kind of thing happens -- all the time. Women-- girls --demonic agents-- can also "rape" men!! God have mercy on us!! What you have is Chronic Prostatitis(CPR). Any male who discharges without sex has CPR--What other symptoms are there? Let's list some ten a)Back ache b) Waist pains c)Sexual Inadequacies of all sorts-- only one round; weak erection; painful penis; premature ejaculation; delayed ejaculation; reduced or no pleasure; dying penis at the sight of vagina-- name it-- d)low sperm count; or zero sperm count; e)problems with urination-- frequency; scattered stream; smelly; etc  f)pain in the pelvis/groin that refuses to go; g)funny feelings and sensations in the pelvis -- like-- h) movements and i) heat and j)itching; then k) discharge during stools or urination. CPR is not usually easy to treat --and yes-- you are right-- most men who have it can pinpoint the exact girl they had sex with before it all started-- and to cap it all -- the funny behavior/ peculiar something that happened during the encounter! CPR can be caused by an STD causing germ; yes. Gonorrhea and Chlamydia refer here. But also ordinary urinary tract infection bugs can also do it. Like E.Coli; Klebsiella; Proteus and so on. Lastly, generally ubiquitous(found everywhere) germs like Staphylococcus; Streptococcus; Candida also can cause it. Treatment? It is complicated and needs expertise. A key is that CPR is the male equivalent of PID -- although PID is much easier to treat. Call my helplines. We'll get you fully well.

Cheers

Internal Heat

Internal Heat
Good day Doc,
I have been following up with some of the problems people present to you in your health column in the Sun news paper, And so many of them have thanked you for your answer and solution to them with regards to their health problem. Please Doc I will like to know what causes internal body heat especially after sex? I have gone through AIDS test and its negative. I have only one sex partner, I do not smoke nor drink, Am just 28 and am being bothered. Please I will be glad if you send a piece of your reply to my mail box.
Thanks and God bless you.
Tooya Tant'Oloun, Abeokuta, Ogun 

Dear Tooya,

Let me first of all congratulate you that you have only one partner and you are HIV Negative. Let me also advise that your best bet is to marry as soon as possible so that you can have the safest sex-- we do not know what your only one partner gets up to behind your back. Now to your main query. The key to answering you satisfactorily is found in the phrase "especially after sex" which means not always after sex but many times after sex. So, we see that, very likely, it has nothing to do with the sex but it's just that it has happened to happen that way in the past. Internal heat must be defined as the feeling of hotness in the body without any evidence of the thermometer recording. Have you taken your temperature to find out what it says at such times or you simply assumed it would read? If you feel hot and the thermometer is reading and recording increases in your temperature, that is not internal heat ; it is fever. If however, you feel hot without thermometer evidence, what you have, truly, is internal heat. Internal heat is simply another of the possible manifestations of Somatisation Syndrome -- a common complaint in cases of anxiety neurosis in these parts. Somatisation occurs this way --when your mind is under stress -- maybe there are conflicts, worries and uncertainties that bother you but you suppress in your mind, the mind uses the avenue of these feelings--such as internal heat; crawling sensation; thumping or pulsating sensation, things moving all over the body, and things jumping from one part of the body to the other to make you sit up and realize there is something wrong that you need to correct. This is the Somatisation Syndrome -- patients whose actual diagnosis is Anxiety Neurosis manifesting and signaling their psychological ill--health as bodily symptoms when there is absolutely nothing wrong with their bodies. These symptoms are real and treatable (in this context this means we can give you medicines that will remove them) but they are not because the body is malfunctioning; it is because the mind is facing some hidden challenges. See a psychologist/psychiatrist who will treat you according to findings as to what is the cause or root -- in your mind , of course -- of the feeling of heat without any temperature rise. If, however, it is only after sex with the lady you feel the heat; that's another kettle of fish. Send to me if it is so, and we'll cross that bridge when we get there.

Cheers
Dr. Caleb Bibbi Oluranti
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