How Can I Make my wife Feel Me?

How Can I Make My Wife Feel Me? Good day sir, My name is Iyaamu and I'm 42 years. I’m writing cos I came across your column in an old Daily Sun newspaper. I went to a hospital to do a semen analysis and it returned: Volume-3.5mls, motility-active 35%, sluggish 25% Dead 40% Count:21.1 million cells, consistency- slightly viscous. And at the end they wrote No growth. Honestly I did not understand a thing in the test, I didn't see the doctor to interpret it for me cos they said I should pay another money for the doctor to interpret and before I went for the test, my wife of three years do always complain that I don't ejaculate inside her which I know I do and always tell her so but she always insist that she doesn't feel anything inside when I said I had come. This made me to go for the test and what I want to know now is if my condition is treatable and how. We have no child yet. Thanks. Iyaamu Gbinigie Benin. Dear Iyaamu, You must start by telling your wife that you ejaculate; you ejaculate inside her and you are capable of impregnating her. How do I know? The tests you did prove these from the result. First, you cannot produce semen as a male unless you ejaculate. If then your wife knows and appreciates that you both have sex and make love and during this your organ is inside of her and comes out limp even though it went in erect, you are ejaculating and doing it inside her. Because, you could never produce semen as a man unless you get an erection and you discharge semen at ejaculation. If it happened when you wanted to collect semen for the test, it is happening the same way when you are inside her. Why then is she not feeling it? Anxiety associated with her long-time delay in getting pregnant; that's all. Her anxiety has depressed her ability to feel you. Nothing else. It is a normal thing to find anxiety causing all kinds of distortions of perception; so please do not worry. As it is important also for madam to lose her anxiety so as to help her get pregnant, please do all you can to share this mail with her to calm her fears. You are normal in every way. The normal volume of semen ejaculated by males is 2 to 5 mls; you have 3.5, so you passed. When the total sperm count in the ejaculate is higher than 20million per ml, the man CAN impregnate a woman. The normal is 20 to 300 million. Some authorities quote 60 to 300 million. I once had a man from Maiduguri come to see me in Lagos whose sperm count was 750million per ml!!! The point is your own 20.1 million is higher than 20 million. So, again, you passed. When the question is the quality and not the number of sperm cells, you still get a pass mark -- it is normal once over 40% of the sperm cells are alive (the vigorous and highly motile plus the sluggish). In your case, 25% plus 35% is 60%. You need just 40% at the least. Now, these your figures, though okay, can be bettered or boosted with treatment with which we are willing to help you if you ask. So just call the helplines and we'll be very glad to help you. Cheers

Should I Let Her Go?

Should I Let Her Go? Hi Dr Caleb, A good day happy to you and family. I want to know if you still on the good job. Well, if yes I have one problem I will need your assistance, sir. Please, doctor, it is about the same babe I told you about last year. She is at it again; this girl came back from school with a ring in her engagement finger! When I asked what that means she told me that it was to keep guys off her way! After some time I discovered that she was no longer caring for our relationship again!! I called her to talk; she gave excuses and when I call she will pretend that she is not in a good mood but she will always ask for money from me. But most of all is that she has gone back to school without my knowledge!! I was so much annoyed when I found out she was back to school without telling me!!!! Please what should I do? l love her so much but she never appreciates it. Should I let her go? Please tell me, doctor? Ganiyu Sawdiq Mushin, Lagos Dear Ganiyu, Sorry about the way this girl is treating you and your relationship. But the truth is this kind of thing happens and is allowed to happen once both of you are not married yet. So, since she no longer has any regard for the relationship or for you, the meaning is that she no longer loves you even though you still love her. What should you do? Simply, LET HER GO and keep your peace of mind which has a great deal to do with your health and well-being. I hope you understand? Cheers Dr. Caleb Bibbi Oluranti

Unknown Condition

Unknown Condition Dr Caleb, Good day, Sir. I am Taofeek Ibn Halladu. I am 35yrs, I must commend you on your efforts in helping people through their problems both medical and spiritual. May God bless you abundantly.Doc, I don’t know what's wrong with me for close to 3yrs now, I have been having pimples on my face, arms and some other parts of my body. They just appear, within a week they go and appear somewhere else again. I also have itchy scalp and other parts of my body sometimes, coupled with a burning sensation on my lips and under my feet that comes and goes. I am also losing weight. I try to eat as much as possible but don't gain much. I sometimes feel pains in my knees and elbows. I don’t know if this is depression of some sort. I am scared of testing for HIV because I really don’t know what the outcome might be. Please doctor, kindly explain to me what could be the cause of all this, and what I should do, I will also like to find out the symptoms of HIV and if they all appear at once or singly. I will be awaiting your reply soonest. Thank you, Sir and God bless you Dear Taofeek, Yes. Because, in your question, you mention spiritual and medical by yourself I want to say we help to sort people out from an understanding and thorough training in not just the physical orthodox and medical, but also the mental, psychological and social, not to forget the spiritual, private and personal. Man is tri-partite--body, soul and spirit. You will understand that the physical is conscious; the psychological is sub-conscious and the spiritual is unconscious and accesses us through dreams and intuition/hunches. Apart from the simply physical, to a physician like us, trained properly in all these areas of life, we have to account for your psychological depression and your fear which is a spiritual thing-- these are signals that what you are experiencing may well be beyond ordinary physical treatment alone. What we can tell you is this, you will get well if you follow our guidance, instruction and prescription. Physically, we will encourage you to go do your HIV tests. No, we do not suspect HIV but know you do and understand that in any war it is better psychologically for you to know what you are fighting. HIV symptoms can appear in whatever combination and include skin rashes that won’t heal, weakness from lack of enough blood or anemia, weight loss, thrush/ sore throat/ mouth sores that refuse to heal, diarrhea, fever that is unrelenting, swollen glands, joint and muscle pains. Whatever or whichever symptoms you do or do not have, remember that ONLY THE HIV TEST CAN TELL. Psychologically, we are going to counsel you and get to the root of your depression. Spiritually, we will teach you to pray (any and every religion-friendly) to God your Creator who will have mercy on you. You will soon be so well sorted out that you will wonder if your illness was not just a dream. We have helped many termed incurably ill, who have been to India, Dubai, Europe and America who could not get well but who got well as they listened to us and followed our direction and prescriptions. We can help you. Just call the help-lines/send us an e mail or text. You can also visit www.mediamedix.blogspot.com Dr Caleb Bibbi Oluranti Medical Director,Healingtouch Royal Hospital,Lagos. 08033466574, 08093142261

Pregnant But No Child In Her Womb!!

Pregnant But No Child In Her Womb!! Dear Doc, I feel at home with the way you treat peoples' questions and decided to write you a personal one. I am a young man of 32 years and married for two years now but no issue to show for it. Our problem now is that of confusion. When my wife and I decided to really start a search for a child, we went for various tests which showed that my wife was alright but with slight fibroid, which the doctors said would not hinder her from conceiving. I was found to have a low sperm count problem and was placed on treatment. This greatly improved to up to 74 million, and I was given a clean bill of health as able to impregnate my wife. My wife took in twice and it all went out after the first month. We continued until we decided to try herbs to fight the fibroid. The herb woman told my wife the very first time, that she was one month pregnant. We rejoiced and started thinking of our baby. However lately, she went to the hospital for a scan after 3 months, and was told that there was no child in her womb. Meanwhile, her tummy is protruding, breast enlarging, she feels very heavy, experiences sleepiness and drowsiness in the early mornings, and once or twice has almost thrown up in the morning. The problem is that with all these signs, is it possible that she is not pregnant? And if not, what could be growing in her tummy, since it is not fibroid? Thanks again for your interest. Yours truly, Dylan Thomas; Enugu Dear Dylan, There is bad news and then good news for you. The classical diagnosis any Western-trained doctor will give you is what is called Pseudocyesis or False Pregnancy. Ultrasound scan was done for your wife. There is no evidence of a pregnancy or a baby in her womb. The pregnancy is false. Your wife has some funny thing wrong with her. Perhaps she should see a psychologist or a psychiatrist or at least a counsellor. Full Stop; no hope; no way. What is the good news? About seven years ago, a lady with her husband walked into my consultation room to see me. The lady was in tears. She showed me two reports of scan tests she did from the same scan centre about three months apart. The first showed that there was a baby. The second report showed, like your wife that there was no baby. Husband and wife were devastated. What happened? Where was their baby? She was still looking pregnant! I treated them for two weeks, they went back for a scan and the scan reported on the same woman that there was a baby in her womb now. Needless to say, they delivered the baby who is a boy and alive and well; a spitting image of the dad. There are mysterious cases which we as mere doctors cannot handle without consideration of not just the physical, but the physical, together with the mental and not forgetting the spiritual. When we see face to face we will successfully handle the challenge of anyone with a similar story. Call the help lines Dr Caleb Bibbi Oluranti; 08033466574; 08028240983; 08093142261; 08156697540

My Asthma Hs Gone!!!

My Asthma Has Gone Dear Dr, A fine day to you, Sir! I really want to give thanks to God and you, doctor, for helping me get rid of my asthma. I want to really thank you and bless God who used you to deliver me from my asthma and my ignorance last year. When I came to the clinic I did not know the kind of doctor I was going to see. You told me that you are a doctor that uses means. When I inquired what kind of means you replied, “the power of God in prayer that heals and delivers that’s the means I use and I will teach you how to do so too”. I told you about my cough that had lasted a long time. You were surprised that as an undergraduate I could sit on my cough for so long, because I confessed that my mom had asked me to go see a doctor three months ago. You looked in my file at my history and saw several episodes of cough in my past. You then asked me if I were a Christian trying to dodge confessing and accepting that I had asthma. I finally had to admit that I had a challenge with the disease and did not really know what to do to get my healing and that in truth, as a Christian, I did not want to accept, not to talk of declaring that I had the disease. You assured me that you knew what to do and if I would only follow simple instructions. I decided to let you guide and coach me into perfect health. You then proceeded to teach and coach me on how to pray and storm heaven with my demand for healing. While my coaching was going on, you said to me that anyone who cared and was serious could get rid of their health challenge, no matter what - infertility, arthritis, cancer or other incurable disease, staphylococcus, sexual and marital issues, fibroid, prostate problems, hypertension, diabetes, name it, if they would only follow simple instructions as they used their drugs, took counselling from you and prayed along. True to your word, after my prayers for the discovery of the roots of my asthma, you prayed for me and ministered deliverance to me based on my own personal findings in the prayers that you taught me and MY ASTHMA HAS GONE!!! This, you must understand, is something that came into my life at 15 while I was at school and I have nursed for six good years!!! Truly, my ignorance of what to do kept me bound. But now, I am well. Your approach and the “means” you use are so user-friendly that anybody can learn to use them. One thing I am most grateful for—when you said means, you only wanted to shock me—you are in no way fetish; just Biblical and simple. Thank you. I mean, since more than six months now, I have not smelt anything called asthma and I know in my bones that I have been healed. Thank you so much, doctor Janey Ashmango, Alausa, Lagos Dear Janey, You are welcome; thank you for thanking me. The issues are clear. You (or anybody for that matter) can get rid of any disease. You will use your medicines along but you will learn to think in a different way. Then you will also learn to pray with faith and persistence. As we coach and guide you, you’ll find the help of God and overcome your challenges. And this is not about religion but about becoming healthy again. Any human being from any religion definitely will benefit from these principles. Just call the help-lines

I've Lost Interest in Sex!

I've Lost Interest in Sex! Hello Dr, Please help me. I am a mother of two. Since after my first child, I have not been enjoying sex with my husband. In fact I hardly feel like it. My guy is good. He is worried about my lack of interest in sex. I believe this is unconnected to the tie (episiotomy) I had during my childbirth. What should I use to improve my sexual life? Please help. Thanks Troubled Wife, Badagry, Lagos Dear Troubled Wife, Many women have discovered that after childbirth there is this challenge you face of no interest in sex as before. It is not necessarily related to episiotomies, but to the necessary enlargement/loosening/widening vagina that accompanies childbirth through the birth canal or vagina and loss of the tightness/control/function of the nerves empowering the area. There is a very easy remedy that can be used to reverse the loss of interest and response and it involves, among other things, a series of exercises of the pelvic muscles called the pubo- coccygeus. These are the muscles we use to stop urination. Suffice it to say that this condition is easily investigated and cured by seeing the right professionals --a good doctor/gynecologist /sexologist - who should look you up thoroughly and treat as your investigations indicate. Before you see these professionals, however, try these tips. Because the physical and psychological stress of pregnancy, delivery and nursing the baby are factors in your loss of libido, tell your husband you want and need him like before but could he please help you with caring for baby in the night when you are getting a much-needed rest? Also, keep baby from your bed in a cot by himself; that gives permission for sex. Even if there is no sex yet; let oga hold you and touch you. Plan dates to have sex; it will boost both your libidos. If oga agrees and helps and you are less stressed with the caring for baby, you soon begin to recover your sex drive.Finally, there's great big news for women. There is a new drug useful for the treatment of hypoactive sexual desire disorder in women. Flibanserin or Addyi is the name. Newly approved by US FDA (Food and Drug Administration) since August 19, 2015. Call the helplines if you want us to help. Cheers Dr. Caleb Bibbi Oluranti 08093142261; 08057441699;08028240983;08033466574

Chronic Illness for 2years; Help!!

Chronic Illness For 2 Years; Help!!! Dear Dr, I have been ill for roughly 2 years now and all efforts to get lasting treatment have proved abortive. Symptoms are recurrent waist pain, internal body heat sometimes at the sole of the feet, stomach rumbling [sometimes noisy], recurrent sore throat, catarrh and cough with chest congestion and sometimes pain in scrotum after a prolonged erection. All this is always accompanied by persistent fever and sometimes dizziness. Once or twice noticed sperm [like] fluid come out of the penis. I have treated malaria and typhoid more than 10 times ever since after tests confirmed their presence. Also, 2 HIV TESTS have been negative. Murebo Takoto, Taraba Dear Murebo, Looking at all your symptoms, my educated, experienced and professional guess is, you are looking for the answer in the wrong place. Malaria and typhoid? I don’t think so. I think you had sex with a certain girl. And this sex you had got you into trouble. You contacted a disease called Chronic Prostatitis. It is what is responsible for your pain in the scrotum after a prolonged erection and sperm-like fluid coming out of the penis; stomach rumbling and waist pain. I will not be surprised if the germ causing your problems is Staphylococcus. The way to find out and authenticate or deny all this is to do a laboratory test of both your semen and your urine called microscopy, culture and sensitivity. Because of the many complications of Staphylococcus including a generalized depression of the sufferer’s immunity, your malaria and typhoid and other diseases got at you and you have not been able to cure them. The internal body heat and atimes at the sole of the feet are symptoms of what is called Somatisation Syndrome; a function of anxiety neurosis which generally may follow problems with the genitals for men, seeing that such challenges can be very stressful for men. You can get fully well, but you must look for doctors who understand what is going on. Specialists called urologists and very good doctors are the category I am talking about. Chronic Prostatitis never goes away without treatment--adequate ones at that. So get to work to treat yourself. You can call the help-lines. Cheers Dr.Caleb Bibbi Oluranti 08028240983;08033466574;08156697540;08093142261