Worried After Evacuation

Worried After Evacuation

Dear Dr,

Please make this inquiry confidential and  reply me through this email address. Some time ago, I had an evacuation which was about two weeks old, but later on when I see my period I do feel a deep pain from inside my vagina. Of recent, the pain is getting mild; I really want to know if it is not an infection or something I do not know. Secondly, I used to feel pains when moving my eyeballs, this is usually accompanied with a headache. Doctor, I need you to shed more light on these. Thank you.

Worried lady.

 

Dear Worried Lady,

Simply go back to the person who did your evacuation-- I hope he's a doctor and not a quack?-- and complain.  He's the only one who can tell. As for me I think you have some sub-acute infection --perhaps you did not follow up on antibiotics you needed to use after your procedure? It is important to go and sort this out because such infections as we are talking about can damage your tubes and fertility. Hurry. Before we go, proper knowledge of fertility --what we call fertility awareness will help you from having to do evacuations or remove your own unborn babies by yourself before they are born. Go to www.mediamedix.blogspot.com to read articles on fertility awareness-- how to be sure you do not get pregnant and for that matter also, how to be sure you have a good chance to get pregnant. As for your headache and eyeballs, go see a doctor and have him check you for typhoid fever or some mild salmonellosis. The symptoms you complain of tend to be associated with this milder form of infection with Salmonella which is the generic name of the germ that causes typhoid fever.

Cheers

Scanty Bleeding--Why?

Scanty Bleeding--Why?

Dear Doctor,
I am a girl of 23. It happens that since April this year that I have been experiencing another scanty drops after my normal menstrual flows. I have consulted my family doctor and explained this to him, he then asked me some questions that goes thus * Have you been using fingers on yourself? * Have you been using contraceptive pills?* Has your finance been using force on you? * And so on. But my answer to all of the above was "NO" Though I have a fiance, but due to the fact that he is not residing in the same state with me, I don't have sex regularly, and while having sex we use condom unless during my free periods because we don't want to have a baby until we wed. Meanwhile he advised me to go and run a scanning test to know whether there is injury in my womb or something like that, I did so but the result yielded "NO" significance including the size of my vaginal passage. Since then I've been noticing it but not on regular basis. Please doctor, could you suggest the course or the solution to this problem so that it will not cause any harm to me during my pregnancy? Thank you sir,
Sally Ima, Enugu

Dear Sally,

Any lady can have the complaints you have -- small amounts of bleeding from the vagina outside the normal menses. Some call it bleeding twice a month also. We call it spotting -- the woman sees no more than spots of blood on her pants, outside the normal menstrual period. It is an important topic in female health; so all ladies, listen attentively. I will mention a dozen-odd conditions that can cause this condition --but I will divide them into(the first six)ones that are harmless and those(latter six) that are injurious 1.Pregnancy is the first thing to consider -- some women tend to have hormonal imbalances even in pregnancy that make them bleed in a funny way that confuses everybody--so much so, a times that no one knows whether or not they are pregnant 2.Ovulation -- some ladies have some amount of spotting as a sign of their ovulating 3.Use of Estrogen Contraceptives; 4.Stoppage of Estrogen Contraceptives; 5.Ovarian Cyst 6.Nothing the matter -- and it will not last more than 3 times.7Infection; eg Chlamydia;8.Cancer of the Ovary; 9.Cancer of the uterus; 10.Cancer of the Cervix; 11. Peri-menopause; 12.Menopause See a gynecologist/good doctor. Call the help-lines Cheers

Persistent Pelvic Pain, Infertiltiy, Rape

Dear Sir,

In 1996 I was raped in my sleep and I cannot say whether it was real or not but that month I was confused. I went into fasting at the same time taking lime orange discovered that since then I have been having problems with my womb, stomach, menses. I married and couldn’t get pregnant. I just lost my husband. I have been taken to many hospitals but to no avail. I never had a boyfriend. Please help me. I don’t know what to do again. If I should remarry, I don’t want any complaint from my husband. My people did not believe me because of the doctor’s statement that it’s all imagination and that it is ulcer. That month as I was being taken from one place to another for treatment, I saw very black blood in my pants but they did not believe me. As I am writing now, I am feeling the persistent pain. Help me out please. I read yesterday’s Daily Sun and I saw something similar.
Barren Widow, Bariga, Lagos

Dear Barren Widow,
It is important that none of us should allow our past to hinder our future. Tell any man that’s interested in marrying you your whole story. If he loves you, he’ll go ahead. Unless one thoroughly examines you and puts the history of your troubles into consideration, one cannot do the best by you but with what I have and without examining you, the first diagnosis that comes to mind is endometriosis . The hallmark of this condition is pain – pain during menses, pain at the time of ovulation, pain during sex and inability to get pregnant. In my well-considered opinion and being a knowledgeable person in such matters, your experiences with your sleep and dream state are, most relevant and germane to your problems—they are not imagination or unreal. You were raped—and the experience was real—real enough for you to feel perhaps it was even physical. Any rape case is a complicated case—there’s psychological overlay and lack of confidence in men, to say the least. For it to have happened in your sleep makes one understand that it has spiritual dimensions also. So your human organism is under attack physically(endometriosis), psychologically (confusion) and spiritually(????husband killed). You need professional help at three levels – medically from a gynaecologist or a very well experienced doctor, psychologically from a good psychologist and spiritually from a priest. We can help with all three. If I were to handle your case, I would attribute all your challenges to the rape in the dream and take things from there. Of course you would be treated for any physical diseases (endometriosis currently has no cure, but with God, all things are possible) but it is my considered opinion that any approach to your problems that begins by not believing you or consigning what you experienced to make-belief or imagination in the name of science is bound to fail as they have failed all these 20-odd years.
Call the help-lines.

Miscarriages Ended

Miscarriages Good day doctor. My names are Really Frustrated, 29 years old, married, and I reside in Port Harcourt. I thank God for using you for the help of mankind, I read your question and answer sessions every Thursday and I know you will be a blessing to me. I got married precisely 25th Feb. 2013 and in July I took in. On the 15th of August that same year I started bleeding. I was placed on Primolut for 4 weeks weekly, but on Sept 15th few weeks later I lost the pregnancy. I resigned as a banker because I was told it was stressful and relocated to join my husband. A few months later I took in on the 5th week, I started bleeding again, I was rushed to the clinic and placed on bed rest and later discharged with a weekly injection of Primolut to be taken until it gets to 12 weeks. I took the injections religiously, but on the 19 week I went to urinate and the water wouldn't stop pouring. I was told the amniotic sac was broken and I wasn't due yet. The gynaecologist told me I had to be cleaned up to avoid infection. Doctor Bibbi I cried seriously. I nearly had a heart attack, but thank God for His word. Now I am pregnant again. I need your advice because it is at its early stage and I don't want to take any risk please. This is my ordeal, advice me. This is my mail box, trough which you can reply me, Sir. Thank you. Waiting to read from you. Really Frustrated, Port Harcourt, Rivers Dear Really Frustated, There are physical causes of repeated or habitual (three-in a row) miscarriage; for example, incompetent cervix. Any lady that has miscarried thrice in a row is said to have "Habitual Abortion". There is a professional way to deal with that, and you will need to be checked and examined properly to see you do not have such a condition. There are also psychological/social reasons -- repeated husband battering (God forbid!) is one. Spiritual reasons, though often neglected, are usually very much involved, too. If I were to handle your case, I would probe and treat all three areas -- do you have sex in the dreams for example? See red stuff in the dreams? Have babies in the dreams? Call the helplines and /or send e mail to me doctorbibbi@yahoo.co.uk. There is help for you -- but hurry -- before this new pregnancy is aborted once again. Further advice? Its best to fully investigate the root causes of this so as to allay your fears and bring your pregnancy to term. Please do your due diligence to see a very good doctor/gynaecologist for thorough check-up, a psychologist/psychiatrist and a priest who understands these things. In medical terminology this baby you are carrying is labeled precious baby to help everyone involved in your care to be committed to getting an uneventful pregnancy carried to term and productive of a live healthy baby delivered by spontaneous vaginal delivery. You see, there's help for all --no matter the cause, length and complexity of the challenge with infertility--once you are willing to work at it diligently and factor God into it. I mean we have helped cases with absent menses, ovarian cyst, zero sperm count, unexplained infertility, blocked fallopian tubes, intra-uterine death, fibroids both small and big, failed repeated IVF cases, hormonal imbalance--you name it; any cause! They get their babies, and usually in a very short time, too, compared to the time they have waited. Just call the help lines. I pray for you

Marry Your Sweetheart!!!

Marry Your Sweetheart!!! Hi, I want to find out sincerely from u at docmarrylove@yahoo.com to know the truth before venturing into it. The person I want to marry is very sincere, passionate for God which of course I do appreciate. The moment I proposed to her without asking much questions from her she told me her past live that she was involved in abortion twice by taking some pills that is used to prevent pregnancy. I still want to go ahead but I fear if there is any negative effect in future as I am not a doctor to know even though she told me there is no effect since she is on medical line but that thought kept coming to my mind. She told me such drug could be use to avoid one getting pregnant that people use it for family planning. That there are ones u inject in person that can last a year and all that. Will such things not cause delay in child bearing. Please reply do not publish on paper. Please sir what is your advise on this. Charlemagne Chike, Enugu Dear Charlemagne, Have no fears about our publishing anything because we take the precaution of changing both your name and location and other particulars, okay? Great. Now, considering the contraceptives this lady used to abort, have no fears also. Any side -effects of such medications usually last just a period of 6 months to one year after she has stopped using the medications and from the way you relate this, it would seem she had the abortions quite some time ago. So, no side -effects, no fears!!!Go straight ahead and marry your sweetheart, okay? It is good that you are trying to find out if there can be any negative effects from the meds but the truth is do not bother yourself. And one very good thing is — your heart –maybe not your brain — but your heart– says the same thing also –Marry Her.But the greatest thing she’s got going for her — and for you in marrying her are her fantastic qualities — integrity, honesty, straight-forwardness, courage and obvious love for you, her fellow man and her God. What a gem of a gal! So, go ahead; marry this angel and waste time no more!! Cheers How do I go about it?

Help My Man Be A Man!!

Help My Man Be A Man!! Hi doc, I admire your approach to people's problem; you're really a source of help to humanity. May God continue to increase your wisdom. Please Sir, I want you to help my finance. He has problem with his organ. He's my soul mate; the person I have choose to spend the rest of my life with. I decided to be of help to him he told me his problem early and because of that I want to help him for I know with God all things are possible and there is a solution. He discovered the problem since 5yrs ago (with his ex-girl friend though). He has only tried sex once and was embarrassed. Since then he's stayed away from females until we met. He is dying of anxiety and worries but I assured him because I have confidence that he will be okay. He doesn't drink or smoke or masturbate and even when he watches blue films his organ doesn't move!!! It is weak and small in size and when he wakes up in the morning to ease himself it doesn't erect, but looking at him, you won't know that he has this kind of problem because he is muscular and about 5.9fit tall. Dr, I love him and I strongly believe that he will be treated successfully. I have confidence because I have seen it in your write up in the Sun newspaper where others with the same challenge are treated. Doctor, please we need your help. All through my life I have lived with children and will love to have children of my own. I'm24; he's 25yrs and we've never tried sex. But I did have sex during my adolescence with my boy friend then and I must confess I love sex. I mean I am the sexy type and my boy friend then was also a sex maniac so he always satisfied me. I wouldn't want to cheat on him. Please, doctor, what shall we do? Is there any negative effect if is not treated on time? Can he go for treatment even though we are not going to practice sex yet and what could likely be the cause? Dr. please advise us. We are far from each other. Is it advisable we marry now? Vivian Adejoh, Benue Dear Vivian, I must greatly commend your courage both - first in his own speaking out to you and then in your own reaching out for help. Kudos!! Again and secondly you are to be greatly commended in casting your lot with your love and thirdly in being pro-active about it--you are sexy and would expect action and wouldn't want to be unfaithful. Wonderful!! Too many folks refuse to air burdens and die with them. What you describe is so painfully common and typical I really cannot add to it but just give good news to you and all sufferers of these problems -- there is a cure for you; there is help. Sexual cripples can be perfectly normal again. The likely causes? The effects of certain medications, Diabetes (maybe hidden), Chronic Prostatitis, Stress, Anxiety Neurosis, Erectile Dysfunction, Organ-in-Bondage and idiopathic(unknown). An e mail to betterloverz@yahoo.com will give you fuller details and when both individuals are ready to engage the problem together, results are better guaranteed. Germs responsible for prostatitis can, apart from erectile dysfunction like you complain of about your man, also cause low or zero sperm count by simply killing off the sperm cells produced by the testes and passing through the prostate into the woman at sex; causing infertility. Staphylococcus is one such germ that causes this. Marrying now? The best thing for your flaming love -it's wisest to strike when the iron is hot. Marry now. Get treatment for him now-- don't forget you need him badly, so don't waste time and after we treat him and turn him into a hungry lion for you, you can begin to have those kids fast. Cheers

Does He Still Love Me?

Does He Still Love Me? Dear Sir, I have a friend who I love very much. At the beginning when we met, I remember he loved visiting and calling me. He has also told me then that he realized he was always happy when he was with me. After some time, he stopped calling me, he stopped visiting as frequently as before. He now visits once in sometimes 3 months, 6 months. He send text messages once in two, three months. I now only reply his text messages but have stopped calling him because I do not want him to believe I am forcing myself on him even though I love him. He has told me long before now that if I want to visit him in his house, I should call to confirm that he is in. I have always seen this as asking his permission to visit him so I have refused to ask his permission to visit. After all, when he wants to visit me, he does not call me he just comes. Sir, does he love me at all? CCC, Calabar Dear CCC, Not anymore. Your first paragraph refers -- yes ; he loved you then not now. BUT HE CAN LOVE YOU BACK!!! Listen, love can be stolen. Just like husbands can be stolen ( some funny female goes to steal somebody else's husband ) love and fiancées and fiancés can also be stolen. In fact anything-- babies in the womb, careers, health, wealth, understanding in relationships, breakthroughs in life - anything at all -- can be stolen. And most times the stealing is not done physically --it is done spiritually. I like your resolve to be dignified and not beg him. That's right. However, you can find out what truly happened to him-- was he stolen or did he really never love you? How do you find out? I'll teach you how to -- by prayers. When you find out you can then also TAKE HIM BACK-- oh yes. Whatever has been stolen from you, you can take back. Never by begging - in this case -- but by understanding what to do -- in the physical, in your mind and in your prayers. Listen --my instincts tell me this guy is for you. You wanna have him back without begging? I'll tell you what to do. Send to docmarrylove@yahoo.com. Title your mail "How to recover stolen my blessings" You will not regret it. Cheers