Help My Man Be A Man!!

Help My Man Be A Man!! Hi doc, I admire your approach to people's problem; you're really a source of help to humanity. May God continue to increase your wisdom. Please Sir, I want you to help my finance. He has problem with his organ. He's my soul mate; the person I have choose to spend the rest of my life with. I decided to be of help to him he told me his problem early and because of that I want to help him for I know with God all things are possible and there is a solution. He discovered the problem since 5yrs ago (with his ex-girl friend though). He has only tried sex once and was embarrassed. Since then he's stayed away from females until we met. He is dying of anxiety and worries but I assured him because I have confidence that he will be okay. He doesn't drink or smoke or masturbate and even when he watches blue films his organ doesn't move!!! It is weak and small in size and when he wakes up in the morning to ease himself it doesn't erect, but looking at him, you won't know that he has this kind of problem because he is muscular and about 5.9fit tall. Dr, I love him and I strongly believe that he will be treated successfully. I have confidence because I have seen it in your write up in the Sun newspaper where others with the same challenge are treated. Doctor, please we need your help. All through my life I have lived with children and will love to have children of my own. I'm24; he's 25yrs and we've never tried sex. But I did have sex during my adolescence with my boy friend then and I must confess I love sex. I mean I am the sexy type and my boy friend then was also a sex maniac so he always satisfied me. I wouldn't want to cheat on him. Please, doctor, what shall we do? Is there any negative effect if is not treated on time? Can he go for treatment even though we are not going to practice sex yet and what could likely be the cause? Dr. please advise us. We are far from each other. Is it advisable we marry now? Vivian Adejoh, Benue Dear Vivian, I must greatly commend your courage both - first in his own speaking out to you and then in your own reaching out for help. Kudos!! Again and secondly you are to be greatly commended in casting your lot with your love and thirdly in being pro-active about it--you are sexy and would expect action and wouldn't want to be unfaithful. Wonderful!! Too many folks refuse to air burdens and die with them. What you describe is so painfully common and typical I really cannot add to it but just give good news to you and all sufferers of these problems -- there is a cure for you; there is help. Sexual cripples can be perfectly normal again. The likely causes? The effects of certain medications, Diabetes (maybe hidden), Chronic Prostatitis, Stress, Anxiety Neurosis, Erectile Dysfunction, Organ-in-Bondage and idiopathic(unknown). An e mail to betterloverz@yahoo.com will give you fuller details and when both individuals are ready to engage the problem together, results are better guaranteed. Germs responsible for prostatitis can, apart from erectile dysfunction like you complain of about your man, also cause low or zero sperm count by simply killing off the sperm cells produced by the testes and passing through the prostate into the woman at sex; causing infertility. Staphylococcus is one such germ that causes this. Marrying now? The best thing for your flaming love -it's wisest to strike when the iron is hot. Marry now. Get treatment for him now-- don't forget you need him badly, so don't waste time and after we treat him and turn him into a hungry lion for you, you can begin to have those kids fast. Cheers