Menstrual Pains Cured by Dangerous Sex; Help!!

Menstrual Pains Cured by Dangerous Sex; Help!! Hi Doctor, I love reading your column each time I have the opportunity of coming across Daily Champion. I actually like the way you answer other people problems. I have this problem bothering my mind.I know almost every thing concerning reproductive health because I went for a course on it sometime in 1998. My problem now is that, though I know when I'm ovulating,I also know which of the ovaries is bringing out the egg because I used to have a sharp pain on the side from which the egg is coming out. The pain then wasn't painful as it is now. Right now, it comes as if I'm having menstrual cramps but if I make love with my boyfriend 2days before my ovulation, there won't be any pains and I will still know when I'm ovulating. Making love at this time I know it's dangerous.What can I do to reduce this pain apart from making love? If I don't make love with my boyfriend 2days before my menses, I always have serious cramps.But if I do make love, though there will be cramps, but they'll be not too painful.I also take the contraceptive called Postinor 2 times precisely. But I took it on the 8th day of my menstrual cycle sometime last year but instead of ovulating on the 14th day (I have a 28day cycle)I started bleeding and it came for 5days like my normal menses does and I still menstruate on the 28th day which is my normal way. Could there have been a problem then?Please don't publish my name and email address and I will really appreciate it if a copy of the reply can be sent to my box. Rachel Obeigher, Gboko, Benue Dear Rachel, I must commend the fact that you are into contraceptives to stop unwanted pregnancy. You see Nigerian women are Champion contraception avoiders even though they are knowledgeable about it--many surveys have shown this worrisome fact. Your post-sex contraceptive is the cause of the bleeding --nothing wrong. This drug may act this way in some people. Not to worry. Yes, sex at the point in question is too dangerous-- you are in great danger of getting pregnant and remember, as contraception pre-sex is better than contraception after (or post) sex. So for prevention, use either plain old condoms or spermicide tablets--insert in place just before sex or take the 3monthly injections.Go to a doctor or to the Planned Parenthood office to ask for these shots. For pain, Hyoscine tablets will do very wonderfully and it's important you get this point well because it is the pains you have that are the cause of your having compulsory sex around ovulation-- very risky and the best recipe for unwanted babies. If you come to see us we'll help you further with me useful medicines and injections to put an end to these pains. Of course it will cost you something but nothing compared to an unwanted pregnancy. Try this and let us know how you fare. Finally, try and get married soonest and if you have problems with this and you'd like some help, send me an e mail on the subject--I'm also a pastor who has expertise in that particular area of ministry. Cheers