HIVPositve; Partner Negative

HIVPositve; Partner Negative
Dr,
Can you please explain to me how we can start having babies?
I am 26yrs old, HIV positive and I have a guy who wants 2 marry me. He is 34yrs and he is a lawyer. He loves me and he wants 2 marry me but he said he does not know how we can start having babies without his contacting HIV. So, I need your help and advice.
I began to take anti-retroviral drugs since April 2005 and I discovered that my breasts bring out milk. Doctor prescribed bromagon for me. I took d whole dose which is in d bottle but d milk is still coming out so, please help.
I have not allowed him 2 touch me yet because I don't want him 2 know about d breast milk that is coming out and he said he wants to settle down as soon as possible with me. Please reply me. Thank u
Laura, Lokoja
 

Dear Laura,
You must understand one thing, both of you. Love is the greatest. Love is the strongest force in the universe -- and that is what you both have between you and in your arsenal. Of course, if this boy does not love you, he cannot think of marrying you, no tot talk of proposing; right? If you love him, tell him all-- milk from breast and all -- and see -- if he will not love you the more. You don't understand? Well God is love -- that's what the Good Book says!!! And many waters cannot quench the fire of love. Love also covers a multitude of sins; so be free and fully naked before your lover-- there is no fear in love; see? Good. Catching the disease? Well, even though there is love, it is always wise to be reasonable. Catching the disease from man to woman is faster than from woman to man; that’s for one -- this is because the surface area of the genitals from where the bug can be caught, you will agree is much wider in the woman than in the man. But again, you have been on ARV's -- so your viral load should be minimal. Now ARV's are cheap and almost free; it will be even easier to procure the precious meds. This is another factor on your side-- both of you. Now, to catch disease from partner to the other is not automatic. The defense capabilities of all humans are not the same -- one person can resist disease better than another; so, it is possible he may never catch anything from you. If you add faith to all that and then one last ingredient -- make the faith active -- come see us or some other doctor/priest who understands these things-- I can guarantee you that you will never get him infected; okay? Nor your babies -- though transmission / infection rates from mother to child is like just 13 --20 %. So on balance I would encourage you to go for love --it conquers all things. To you the lady particularly I would say do not postpone marriage for any excuse or reason; okay? Marry your loving suitor and deal with the challenges in the way I suggested. You will testify. (But if after all I have said anyone of you still has some fears, forget what I said and play safe; okay? Though faith can work wonders, fear does the direct opposite; okay?)